The First Agreement of Four Agreements is to be impeccable with your word. It sounds very simple, but it is very, very powerful. Why your word? Your word is the power that you have to create and one of the most difficult to honor. Through your word, you manifest everything. It’s a force by which we communicate what we think, how we feel, and what our dreams are.
“The human mind is like a fertile ground where seeds are continually being planted. The seeds are opinions, ideas, and concepts. You plant a seed, a thought, and it grows. The word is like a seed, and the human mind is so fertile! The only problem is that, too often, it is fertile for the seeds of fear. Every human mind is fertile, but only for those kinds of seeds it is prepared for. What is important is to see which kinds of seeds the mind is fertile for, and to prepare it to receive the seeds of love.” – James Allen.
The impact of words is significant, contradicting the traditional adage, ‘Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.’ Words can either inflict deep emotional pain or serve as a healing instrument.
Many people are unaware that the words they speak act as spells that are constantly being cast. It’s important to consider whether the words you use to promote positivity or negativity and whether they work in your favor or against you. Ask yourself these questions:
– Am I casting pure white magic with my words?
– Am I casting black magic spells with my words?
– Are my actions and words working against me?
– Am I spreading or listening to gossip?
The impact of words is often underestimated, leading to a lack of awareness about their effects. As adults, our words, even when meant as jokes, can have unintended consequences on others, whether in friendships or parenthood. In today’s society, those affected by words are often dismissed as overly sensitive, which is used as a justification for unkindness. It’s important to remember the saying: if you have nothing positive to contribute, it’s better to remain silent.
The power of spoken words holds significant influence, capable of transforming not only your life but also impacting others. A simple statement you made years ago could potentially alter someone’s perspective on life, influencing their aspirations substantially. This power necessitates careful self-expression. Equally important is the way we converse with ourselves, given the multitude of internal dialogues we engage with daily. It’s crucial to identify and give precedence to the constructive inner voices, minimizing the impact of negative self-talk and self-doubt. Remember, possessing the ability to shape your greatness is a powerful tool within your reach.
Your words are powerful magic, and gossip is like black magic. Let’s face it: we all engage in gossip to some extent, almost as if we’re drawn to it. But when you gossip, you’re essentially using “black magic,” allowing negativity to creep in. You may not subscribe to the law of attraction, but it’s a fact that focusing on negative energy attracts more negativity. So, why not use your words for good? Focus on your personal growth and development. We all have the potential to become better individuals.
Next time, before you speak, ask yourself:
Is it kind?
Is it necessary?
Is it true?
‘Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity.’
– W. Clement Stone
